Add the dashboard settings channel, wired for theme and lock

A dashboard could only ever receive as a set of tiles. This adds the dashboard
itself as a receiver: `settings` maps a name to a value plus an optional
binding. Unbound, the setting is simply its value — a wall panel that is always
dark costs no flow. Bound, a flow drives it live and the value is the fallback.

Two settings are wired: `theme` (system/light/dark) and `locked` (read-only).
There is no schedule field on purpose — a node publishing to the bound message
on a cron is what a schedule is here, which is the point of a channel.

- `messages_for()` now walks a dashboard's bound settings as well as its
  widgets' bindings. Without this a paired screen is refused its own theme
  message, on the one surface the setting exists for; it bounds the socket too.
- `locked` is gated in `usePublish`, so every control inherits it, and each
  control also draws itself disabled — a dead button reads as broken otherwise.
  The panel surface says Read-only in the corner.
- The theme is a class on the dashboard's own surface, never the root: inside
  the app shell it must not flip the chrome. `.light` gains the tokens `.dark`
  already had (mirrored in the index repo) so both directions work on a subtree.
- Settings bindings are type-checked from the document alone, the rule widget
  bindings follow, and mirrored on the server.
- A bound setting is drawn on the flow canvas as a dashboard-level endpoint.
- The demo's house flow now publishes `home.panel_theme`, which the demo
  dashboard's theme binds to: the panel goes dark after sunset, at no tile cost.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_018tULRZJUkZsw7rMJ3h4xvu

frontend/src/index.css

@@ -98,6 +98,11 @@
  * segment is therefore drawn inside a gutter of the fill rather than ever
  * bordering the track.
  */
+/* `.light` is the symmetric half of `.dark` below: both are plain classes, so
+   either themes a subtree as well as the whole document — which is what lets a
+   dashboard forced to one theme sit inside a shell on the other. `:root` is
+   listed second so the parity grep keeps its anchor line. */
+.light,
 :root {
   --background: #ffffff;
   --foreground: #333232;